How To- Break Old Money Patterns

Persistence over perfection.

Now, those who know me well will laugh at this because I was such a perfectionist growing up.

Morgan broke me of that when she started walking…

How did I get out of tens of thousands of debt as a young, single mom?

Well, a big part was sending my now-ex-husband back to his mother.

Another big part was the support of my family.

And the third part was persistence.

I listened when my mother and grandmother told me how they used envelopes for each basic budgetary expense. I put a pre-determined amount of cash in each envelope every payday and did not spend more than that.

I used the snowball method to pay off my credit cards (sorry, baby steppers, Dave did not create this- it has been around forever). I remember the thrill of looking at my previous months’ pages in the notebook I kept and seeing how far I had come. Not to mention how good it felt to get down to that $0 balance!

Within a 1.5 years I had paid down enough debt and raised my credit score to a point where I qualified for a small mortgage. I purchased my first home right after Morgan’s 4th birthday. I was 25.

Then I went to college, relaxed, and ended up back in debt.

A good job fixed that problem, but because I adapted my lifestyle to fit the new income, I ended up back in the same place.

Back to the envelopes…

Do you see a pattern?

There are actually two.

One is that persistence- those little steps we take each day- make a huge difference.

The second is that unless you change your mindset it does not matter how much you earn, you will always be broke.

Just at a higher income bracket.

Do either of these sound like you?

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It is possible.

You can do it.

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