“This will make me happy”
How many times have you said that?
It could be about shoes, a purse, a dress, losing weight, meeting someone, a certain income level, buying your dream house… almost anything.
But, what happens nine times out of ten?
Nothing.
You are not happy. At least, not long term.
The newness and excitement wears off and you are off to look for the next thing that will “make” you “happy”.
You know why?
Because, deep down you know “things” will not make you happy.
Happiness comes from within.
It is a decision you make, not something you can buy.
And you know what happens while you are chasing happiness?
You spend a lot of money you could have used somewhere else.
Money you could have invested so your money can work for you instead of you working for your money.
Money that could have paid off the debt that is costing you a lot more money than what shows up on the monthly statement.
Money that could have purchased higher quality, healthier foods.
Money that could have been used for your continuing education.
Money that could have created an emergency savings account.
Money that could be used to create memories.
Does this sound familiar?
Now, I am not here to place blame or guilt. We have all made that impulse buy that feels great in the moment.
But when you know better you can do better. So, if you recognize yourself in this post, commit to being mindful of the ways you use short-term emotions to sabotage your long-term goals.
If you are following the How To Be A Money Master system, you have a percentage of your income going to your Play account so you have the guilt-free cash available for those fun purchases. And, you know you will not be blowing your budget.
And, if you are not where you want to be financially, and not following the How To Be A Money Master system, why not?
If you like to DIY, you can learn everything you want in the free fb community and on right here in the How To Be A Money Master website.
Or, if you prefer everything to be wrapped up in a nice convenient place with even more ongoing, personalized support, you can check out the Money Mom Academy. The fb group is only for those who have purchased the course, and it is the best value for a comprehensive, all-inclusive financial education course. Ask me how you can become the go-to “money mom” for those who look up to you.
What was your latest “this will make me happy” purchase?